Me and my friends play on a server that isn't really openly known, but anyone can come if they want. We are VERY newbie friendly, and there really isn't too much open competition. There are many "helpers" that will auto-trade for you, and much, much more, just refer to the helpers forum. A good one to get started on is J-TWAT
http://www.j-twat.com
That address to the server is... 24.214.131.244 port 2002
gl guys